April
Laughter at Work
Think work is no joke? Think again!
In all of spring, it can rain cats and dogs, but when does it rain monkeys? In Ape-ril.
What’s a tornado’s favorite game? Twister.
Does February march? No, but April may!
When is the best time to wash your Slinky? During spring cleaning.
What type of flower do you plant in the dark? A light bulb.
Which superhero likes spring the best? Robin.
The benefits of humor
There is good evidence that laughter has positive physiological and psychological effects on people. For example, laughter lowers levels of the stress hormone cortisol and can increase the “feel good” hormone dopamine. Interestingly, while a child can laugh up to 300 times a day, the typical 40-year-old adult laughs only about four times a day (Gerloff, 2011). No wonder workplace stress is such a problem.
Laughter and humor in the workplace also can have positive effects on how an individual is perceived and can help create more positive social relationships at work. For example, research has shown that individuals who use humor are rated as more competent and confident (Bitterly, et al., 2017). Humor can also lead to better workplace relationships because laughter induces the release of oxytocin, which facilitates social bonding and increased trust. Shared laughter can lead to feelings of closeness and greater relationship satisfaction.
Warning: Use the right kind of humor
Humor can be positive or negative, and all evidence suggests that it is the positive forms of humor that benefit people in the workplace. For example, affiliative humor is benevolent and involves telling funny stories. For example, comedian Jerry Seinfeld has an affiliative style of humor as he jokes about everyday life situations that we share (Seinfeld: “My parents didn’t want to move to Florida, but they turned 60, and it’s the law!”). People can, together, relate to affiliative humor.
Negative forms of humor include “aggressive humor” that is targeted toward others and ridicules them. Comedians Don Rickles and Joan Rivers were famous for using aggressive humor. Self-defeating humor is the individual making themselves the butt of jokes, and that also is not a good form of humor to use in the workplace. Rather than building up positive relationships, these negative forms of humor can offend and work against the development of close work relationships.
How to use humor in the workplace
Here are some guidelines to increase the use of humor in the workplace and to keep it positive and productive:
- Use positive humor. Keep the humor positive with affiliative humor that focuses on shared experiences. Never use aggressive humor or tell jokes that others might find offensive or crude.
- Encourage the funny. Many people avoid telling jokes because they are afraid they will fail at it, but people are generally forgiving. As Aaker and Bagdonas (2021) say in their terrific book Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life, “People appreciate almost any kind of levity, provided it’s not hurtful or offensive.”
- Don’t try to be a comedian. The purpose is not to make your colleagues fall on the floor laughing but to create an environment where levity is natural and spontaneous.
- Tell a joke. Aaker and Bagdonas offer a simple guide. Start by stating a simple observation and then build in misdirection to reveal the “unusual thing” you’ve noticed. For example, for a joke about the post-pandemic move to remote work, “I miss so many things about the office — the chats in the break room, leaving encouraging notes on my colleagues’ desks, and wearing anything other than pajama pants.”
So try to add a little levity to your workplace and see if it doesn’t reduce the shared stress and improve your image and your relationships at work.
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